Do you want to be in good books
of everyone?
Do you want to be treated
special?
Do you want to be the centre of
attention in a group?
Well, this blog today, is not gonna be anything about ‘tips to
get famous’ or ‘how to be celebrated’ kinda topics. This blog today is all
about how okay it is to be flawed. We
always have been so conscious about our bodies, behaviours, attitudes, and
conducts. We take eternity to grow ourselves into somebody, we’ve always
admired. We take forever to transform ourselves into what the society demands
us to be (#Following the trend). But we never bring ourselves down to the
thought about why isn’t it okay to be what we’ve been grown with. Why isn’t it
okay to live with what we’ve inherited? Why isn’t it okay the way it is?
People usually feel bad and
curse themselves for being fat, or having a face full of scars, or not being
able to work in a certain way and god knows what not! They continuously blame
themselves for the fact, that they aren’t as capable as the people they aspire
are. In this whole process, they mislead themselves to an extent, where they
start talking and behaving in the same way. But least do they know that bare
imitating the other person won’t lead them to become the same person. People
need to understand that each person born on this earth has his/her own aura,
own vibe, a little something that differentiates them from others and by mere
imitating someone, they can’t steal all of it from them. Rather, all what would
happen is that in this whole procedure, they would miss out on their own self.
They would lose the only thing that separates them from the crowd.
Forgetting all of it, first
let’s find out the reasons for why everybody today craves for attention.
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To feel dominant
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To feel special
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To feel loved
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To manipulate
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To influence and so on…
Now let’s have a glimpse on what
they do to gain attention.
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Imitate
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Exaggerate
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Manipulate
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Pretend
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Use the fake card
Time to look at the kind of
people who are in a desperate need to seek attention.
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People with low self esteem
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People with less self-respect
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People with deadly sufferings
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People with insecurity and trust issues
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People who don’t feel self sufficient
Often, you would hear people
referring somebody as ‘flawless’, just by looking at his/her face, figure,
physique, clothes etc etc. I mean how silly and irrelevant of them to even
believe that there can be somebody who’s completely ‘flawless’. Nothing on this
earth is ever flawless. From a human body to the evergreen beautiful nature,
from the open wide sea to little crawling insects; nothing is perfect. Is it so
unrecognisable that due to the existence of word ‘imperfect’, there is the
survival of word ‘perfect’? Or that the existence of word ‘flaw’ validates the
survival of the word ‘flawless’?
It is okay to feel the beauty
and imagine the positivity every time but it is even more okay to stumble and
trip in life, to know that it won’t cause you any pain to be you, to understand
that it’s completely effortless to act you and it is completely acceptable to
value your flaws. Trust me, being broken makes much more sense than to pretend
being tough and unbreakable, for the shattered pieces have nothing to lose
while the resilient continuously live in the fear to lose out!
